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Tuesday, 23 October 2012

HOW MANY KIDS SHOULD WE HAVE?

In the old days, the attitude towards the family was different. We didn't know about "planning a family", like what is known today, you work hard and you get pregnant. No place for doubts, questions, and women knew their place. Which is at home with the children, cooking, cleaning, and waiting for the husband?
But those days are gone,
Today a couple talking about the future like it is a business, their planning ahead. Talking about how many kids they want, and they try to see if they have the same family dream.
couples want to have a big family because they grew in big family and that's what they are use to. Some believe that a big family is happier and livelier than a small one. Some parents think that having a lot of children means that as the kids grows there will be a lot of help that they can receive as they grow however because of modern way of life today it is not advisable anymore to have lots of children.
First because the women of today are more career women then being a mother. Motherhood is a full time job and takes care of the kids all day.
Second, this generation is different, more materialistic. What makes a big expense, if before the kids used to play with a friend, today (unfortunately) the desire for machines, computer, TV, PlayStation 2, and that is changing the family budget.
There are some parents that want only one or maybe two, because they come from a small family, or because of financial reasons.
Today, family planning is very helpful among couples not only because of financial reasons but also with some other factors. A two or three years of pregnancy interval is very helpful for a mother since during those two to three years she can get back all the strength that were lost during pregnancy.
Also, the health of each child can be well observed and taken care of. if you only have two or three kids compared to having five or more since it will be hard to focus on each kid at the same time. You can guide each child if you only have few and it will not be hard for the parents to raise them because there will be enough time to spend on each child.
So if you look on this issue deeper you see that there is no right and wrong. There is not one answer. There is different answer to each couple as long as the couple talks this threw and shares with each other what is the family dream.

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Obama signs order to cut travel, cellphones, swag

WASHINGTON (AP) — With the stroke of his pen, President Barack Obama has sacked souvenirs federal agencies buy with taxpayer money to promote their work. The ban he signed Wednesday is part of a broader executive order to cut some $4 billion of dollars in waste and make government more efficient. Some office equipment will simply be scarcer, and fewer cell phones and laptops will be issued. Obama has been using his executive powers on modest proposals — Wednesday's order targets trinkets like coffee cups, T-shirts and pens — to promote job creation, help homeowners or, in this case, redirect spending. With such orders, signed in Oval Office ceremonies, Obama is trying to demonstrate that he is engaged in measures large and small and to distinguish himself from what he argues is a pretty unproductive Congress. Lawmakers are in the middle of a more gargantuan task — cutting deficits by at least $1.5 trillion over the next 10 years. "It doesn't replace the importance of work the Congress needs to do in coming up with a balanced, bold plan to reduce our deficit," Obama said as he prepared to sign his administrative order. "But it indicates once again that there are things that we can do right now that will actually deliver better government, more efficiently, more consumer friendly for less money." The saved money won't directly reduce deficits, however. In a statement in advance of the signing, Obama said, "We're cutting what we don't need so that we can invest in what we do need." An administration official said the savings of about $4 billion would allow the administration to focus resources on veterans, members of the military and on infrastructure. The order directs government agencies not only to reduce the authorizations for technology equipment, but also requires cutting the size of the executive vehicle fleet. It also encourages agencies to use technology to save money, including teleconferences and online seminars to reduce travel and online publishing to cut down on publication costs. Overall, the president aims to cut spending in the areas mentioned in the order by 20 percent. "We believe we can get better results for less using technology," Obama said. Vice President Joe Biden and White House budget director Jacob Lew attended the signing in the Oval Office. Obama was also accompanied by four finalists in a cost-saving contest among federal government employees. One finalist suggested the creation of a tool "lending library," another proposed ending the purchase of U.S. code books that are already available online. Among examples cited by the White House of cost-cutting already under way are the Internal Revenue Service's plan to cut 27 percent of its travel costs by relying more on teleconferences and webinars and the Homeland Security Department's decision to conduct annual audits to reduce the number of unused cellphones and air cards. At the Commerce Department, the White House said, the agency has reduced the number of fleet drivers to one for all top departmental officials, including for new Secretary John Bryson.

Heavy D dies at 44

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Eddie Murphy quits Oscars after Brett Ratner exit

Actor and comedian Eddie Murphy has resigned as host of the 2012 Oscar ceremony, due to be held in February. His decision comes a day after the resignation of producer Brett Ratner, a friend of Murphy, who used a derogatory term in public. Mr Ratner used the word "fags" during a question and answer session on his latest film Tower Heist. Mr Ratner recruited Murphy to be the Oscars' next host when he was hired as producer of the 2012 awards ceremony. The Rush Hour director has been replaced by Brian Grazer, the Oscar-winning producer of A Beautiful Mind - and frequent producing partner of director Ron Howard. "Brian Grazer is a renowned filmmaker who over the past 25 years has produced a diverse and extraordinary body of work," said Academy President Tom Sherak. "He will certainly bring his tremendous talent, creativity and relationships to the Oscars.' No replacement has been announced for Murphy. Ratings push Correspondents say the comedian's resignation could be a setback for the Academy Awards. The ceremony has seen declining TV ratings in recent years and is battling the rise of newer awards ceremonies, which appeal to younger audiences. Choosing Murphy to host for the 2012 ceremony marked a return to the traditional, well-tried formula of a comedian host - one very successful ceremony was hosted by Bob Hope, Johnny Carson and Billy Crystal. Oscar officials and Eddie Murphy himself insisted the split was not an acrimonious one. "I appreciate how Eddie feels about losing his creative partner, Brett Ratner, and we all wish him well," Sherak said of Murphy's decision to step down. Murphy said: "I was truly looking forward to being a part of the show that our production team and writers were just starting to develop, but I'm sure that the new production team and host will do an equally great job." An online campaign to replace Murphy with the Muppets was initiated on Wednesday.

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

HOW MANY KIDS SHOULD WE HAVE?

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